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Series: Sunday School
Title: Something Has to Give
Genesis 32:22-32
22 That night Jacob got up and took his two wives, his two female servants and his eleven sons and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. 23 After he had sent them across the stream, he sent over all his possessions. 24 So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak. 25 When the man saw that he could not overpower him, he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip so that his hip was wrenched as he wrestled with the man. 26 Then the man said, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.”But Jacob replied, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” 27 The man asked him, “What is your name?”“Jacob,” he answered. 28 Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with humans and have overcome.” 29 Jacob said, “Please tell me your name.”But he replied, “Why do you ask my name?” Then he blessed him there. 30 So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “It is because I saw God face to face, and yet my life was spared.” 31 The sun rose above him as he passed Peniel, and he was limping because of his hip. 32 Therefore to this day the Israelites do not eat the tendon attached to the socket of the hip, because the socket of Jacob’s hip was touched near the tendon.
A transformed life starts at surrender
Genesis 25:23-26
23 The Lord said to her, “Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.” 24 When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. 25 The first to come out was red, and his whole body was like a hairy garment; so they named him Esau. 26 After this, his brother came out, with his hand grasping Esau’s heel; so he was named Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when Rebekah gave birth to them.
God leads us to transformational moments
Genesis 32:9-12
9 Then Jacob prayed, “O God of my father Abraham, God of my father Isaac, Lord, you who said to me, ‘Go back to your country and your relatives, and I will make you prosper,’ 10 I am unworthy of all the kindness and faithfulness you have shown your servant. I had only my staff when I crossed this Jordan, but now I have become two camps. 11 Save me, I pray, from the hand of my brother Esau, for I am afraid he will come and attack me, and also the mothers with their children. 12 But you have said, ‘I will surely make you prosper and will make your descendants like the sand of the sea, which cannot be counted.’”
The blessing we seek is found in surrender
Hosea 12:3-4
3 In the womb he grasped his brother’s heel; as a man he struggled with God. 4 He struggled with the angel and overcame him; he wept and begged for his favor. He found him at Bethel and talked with him there...
Romans 7:15
I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do.

SHARE
Would those who know you best say you are stubborn? What areas in life do you tend to be the most stubborn?
NAME
Read Genesis 25:23-26.... Have you ever met someone that you think their name matches them perfectly? Do you like your name? Do you know what your name means? How would you feel finding out your name meant “schemer” or Sneaky-Thief?”
MESSES
Q: In what ways did Jacob live up to his name? In what ways was Jacob a victim of scheming of others? Does Jacob’s character seem like the attributes of someone God would choose to use? Does this encourage you or confuse you?
WRESTLING
Read Genesis 32:24-27 & Romans 7:15...Q: What are the moments of your life that God has used to “wrestle” with you? Have you (or are you) frustrated by what you see to be a too-slow transformation? What is your default response when you are confronted with your sinfulness?
IDENTITY CHANGE
Read Genesis 32:28-32...Q: How does pain in our lives confront us? How is receiving a new identity different than just a name change? What is so powerful about knowing your identity in Christ? How did his “limp” remind Jacob of God’s goodness?
PRAYER
Pray together and ask the Lord to help us surrender to what He has for us and the strength to let go of our old selves.