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Title: It’s a Big Deal to Jesus
Matthew 5:17-20
17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. 18 For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. 19 Therefore anyone who sets aside one of the least of these commands and teaches others accordingly will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. 20 For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven.
We couldn’t…Jesus did…so in Him…we can….
Matthew 5:21-26
“You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. 23 “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, 24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift. 25 “Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is taking you to court. Do it while you are still together on the way, or your adversary may hand you over to the judge, and the judge may hand you over to the officer, and you may be thrown into prison. 26 Truly I tell you, you will not get out until you have paid the last penny.
Ephesians 4:26-27
Don’t let the sun go down on your anger…because it creates space for the devil to move us to sin.
Unresolved anger will always spill out
Matthew 5:27-30
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.
Jesus teaches us to be radical in our approach to sin because He knows how much it harms us.
1 Timothy 5:24
The sins of some are obvious, reaching the place of judgment ahead of them; the sins of others trail behind them.
Titus 2:11-12
For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age.
Galatians 5:24
And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

SHARE
What is something you are really passionate about? Do those closest to you know how passionate you are? How does it show?
FULFILL
Read Mathew 5:17-20.... Q: Why is Jesus concerned that His hearers may think He is “against” the law of Moses? What does Jesus say His role is? Why does the Law “HAVE” to be fulfilled?
DIFFERENT
Read Matthew 5:21-30... Why do you think Jesus focuses on anger, insults, and contempt—not only on the outward act of murder? How is Jesus’ teaching on anger similar to our lust? What does this reveal about the kind of change God desires? What is one early sign that anger or lust is taking root in you? What does Jesus tell His listeners to do when they remember that a relationship is damaged? How are we to respond to sinful lust in our lives? Is there a conversation, apology, boundary, or step toward peace that you need to take? What would a wise first step look like?
DEVOTE
Read Ephesians 4:26-27...Discuss: places in scripture where we see Jesus angry. What do we never see Jesus getting angry at? Q: What happens in us when we don’t biblically deal with our anger? Have you ever benefited from holding onto anger? Share a time when it caused you more pain to hold onto anger.
DEVOTE
Read Titus 2:11-12...Q: What does this passage say grace teaches us to turn away from and to move toward? Why might Paul describe grace as training rather than as a one-time fix? How does that shape our expectations of spiritual growth?
PRAYER
Pray: For one another to live self-controlled, Spirit-led lives. Pray for courage to respond with practical steps.